Whatever happened to day off?!?
Is it me or the world refuses to understand the word HOLIDAY?!?!? There have been many a times when I’ve been called a workaholic. I enjoy my work, though it’s somewhat off late on a downward curve. But then again not to digress from the main point, there are times when workaholics need a break too….don’t they? Start of a long weekend after ages….and I am sleeping….probably dreaming with a faint distant buzzing sound reaching out to me and constantly trying to probe and grasp my attention. I keep ignoring it…but it’s persistence increases and increases and finally reaches a point when ignoring it is highly impossible. Focusing my attention towards the sound I proceed to find it’s source and voila! it is my phone and it is a client who has called approximately 5 times in a span of 10 minutes!!! Oh well..I pick the call up…hear and respond something groggily to a question which didn’t qualify as a question at all in the first place and could have easily waited till Monday morning..but that unfortunately doesn’t happen. So after giving the answer and disconnecting the call..I see the time….just 7:45 am. Even if it wasn’t a holiday…some patience to a respectable time would have been highly appreciated. Nonetheless….moving on… I drop back to bed to catch a few more winks but the peaceful sleep I was in was lost.
Sometime later I go around to getting ready in a sort of relaxed manner…to come out to see my phone again with only 10 missed calls….of course all only work related. Clients and a few office people—-now I wonder how many of them would take calls on their off days?!?!?!? Anyways proceeding with my plans for the day I meet my friends and have barely said a hi-hello to them my phone rings again….another call! The story continues and am out having lunch…and again, no points for guessing there ..yup calls and 2 of them back to back…clear indications of being busy are lost. Guess the illegal network towers en route to being torn down in Delhi may have affected the reception of human beings as well. Okay let’s put these calls aside..i finish the yummy lunch over lots of talk.
It’s coffee time (barely 30-45 minutes from lunch) and my phone rings again…again office….loud conversations fill my backdrop..their attempts to reach out the person on the phone and get the point across that I am out and busy were of course futile. A 10 minute long conversation again of no life threat emergency continued.
In a span of my 4 hours out of the house with friends…I must have spent approximately 30 or 45 odd minutes on the phone. I don’t mind the calls but whatever happened to letting people unwind and letting people enjoy their day off??? Guess it’s too much to ask for when you work. After a point it got unnerving and I was kind of irritated. But then not much of a choice we have…do we?
We have forgotten to respect the privacy of other people’s lives….as others are oblivious to this: the only solution is to not take the calls/communicate the message…The problem stems from the fact that we dont take the work-life balance seriously as a society(Not to compare, but in the western world:personal and professional worlds are water tight compartments)
Comment by Sid — February 14, 2010 @ 2:15 am
I am totally with you..in Dxb,we have Fri-Sat off,and,each Sat,I used to get at least a dozen calls from people who knew very well that I had an off. Finally, I found the solution-keep the phone on silent mode,and check every 2 hrs or so-in case some known person calls.:)Try it.
Comment by AmitL — February 26, 2010 @ 12:49 pm
@ Sid: Yes yes…implementing just that now onwards.
@ AL: Doing just that since then.
it works. But persistent people don’t learn..so they keep calling!
Comment by Anz — February 26, 2010 @ 4:43 pm
Same here, Anubha!
Forgotten what a long weekend means, when I am in Mumbai that is.
The only time I get peace is in Delhi, when usually I divert my phone to a colleague. Better that way.
Comment by Deepak Jeswal — February 27, 2010 @ 12:24 pm
I’m a great fan of the silent mode.
And if someone is terribly persistent I make sure I give them their medicine by calling at a funny hour too.
Good to have you read, Anubha. Thannks.
Comment by austere — March 16, 2010 @ 3:40 pm
@ Austere: Me too initially its the silent mode only. Can’t do much about it.
Comment by Anz — May 5, 2010 @ 2:33 pm